Teenagers at a Women’s Retreat
Traditionally, we have opened our women’s retreats to teenage girls. Sometimes they come with their mothers and room with them; other times, we have had a “teen room” with a teen leader with them, who also leads them in some activities and/or workshops specifically geared for teens. Either way, the teens join us in all the main sessions.
This year, I heard some discussion on this question “Should teenagers be allowed to come to a women’s retreat?”
One one side, there are those who think that moms should have their retreat as a time away from their kids. They argue that the teens have their youth camps and youth events, and moms should have something that is theirs alone. On the other side are moms who want to bring their teenage girls so they can have this experience and share it with them.
Actually, I can understand both points of view to an extent. But having had a daughter who attended our annual women’s retreats from the moment that she was allowed to attend (for us, age 13) my personal opinion is that these teen girls are preparing to be women. I wanted my daughter to see and hear godly examples of women worshipping God, praying and fellowshipping together and serving Him. Don’t get me wrong–we loved youth activities also, and were fully involved with the youth group. But this had its place also.
So, I asked my now-adult daughter for a comment, and here is what she said: “How can you grow up if you don’t sit with the grown ups and learn how they know God?”
Something to consider! Read more about teens at a retreat here and here.