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Unfortunate, But True

Over the years, we have recognized an unfortunate fact:  a woman will appreciate the retreat more if she has made a personal investment in order to attend.

We used to go to great lengths to provide scholarships to women who couldn’t afford the expense of a retreat. If we had the means, we provided full scholarships for them to attend the retreat. Over the years, however, we observed that those women who were given full scholarships were the ones more likely to let a minor difficulty or hindrance keep them from attending the retreat, while those who had made a monetary sacrifice to attend the retreat made more of an effort to come, despite difficulties.

As a result of this observation, we made a change to our scholarship policy.  While we still want to provide financial help to those without the means to attend our retreat, we provide this help in the form of partial scholarships.  As a general rule, we now require that those who have expressed the need for scholarship help make some amount of personal investment–by paying whatever they can afford, or, at the very least, paying the non-refundable deposit.


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Retreat Planning Calendar II

Retreat Planning Calendar I gave a basic overview of the use of this tool.  Now let’s be a little more specific on how we have determined a few of these deadlines.

Once we have booked the date and location for the retreat, a key date for the planning calendar is the date that the retreat location requires a final count and rooming list.  We work backwards from that date to set a final date of registration.  With our retreat being on November 12-13, our hotel has required the rooming list confirmation and BEO’s (Banquet Event Orders) on Nov. 3rd.  That means that registration must be completed prior to that date and we must have time to get the final rooming list done.  We have made Oct. 31st the deadline for our completion of the rooming list.   Since there can be challenges involved with getting the final rooming list prepared, we have allowed a little over a week between the end of registration (last day to sign up for the retreat) and the date that the rooming list is due to the hotel.  We like to have registration open for about a month, so registration for our retreat will begin on Sept. 19th and end on Oct. 20th.  We begin announcing the retreat in the bulletin about a month prior to the beginning of registration.

In summary:

Aug. 15       Bulletin announcements begin

Sept. 19       Retreat registration begins

Oct. 24        Last day to register

Oct. 31         Rooming list must be completed

Nov. 3          Rooming list due to hotel

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A Shelf of Remembrance

These are snapshots of my “shelf of remembrance.”  What are these little objects adorning my shelf?  They are small remembrance gifts which were given out at various women’s retreats and events over the years.  Each one is a special reminder of the theme for the specific event or retreat.  They are simple and very inexpensive, but precious reminders none the less of those special times with the Lord.  Most of the time, the theme of the retreat and even the theme verse are noted somewhere on the remembrance.  Other remembrances not sitting on my shelf have included magnets and bookmarks, and they can be found elsewhere in my house!

Women love being pampered at retreats, and taking away a little remembrance is just one of the ways that we try to make the retreats special for them.  Sometimes the gifts are something small that we have purchased; more often, it is something that requires some crafting and/or assembly.  Our hope is that our little gift will be something that will bring back special memories of the retreat.

Posted in: Ingredients for a Great Retreat, Little Things Make a Big Difference!, Retreat and Event Planning

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The Importance of a Back-Up Plan

Things happen that can’t be anticipated.  Unexpected events, family issues, illnesses, transportation … all sorts of things can intrude on your retreat and affect those people who are key to carrying out the retreat.  Your worship leader wakes up with laryngitis, your guest speaker has travel delays, unalterable conflicts arise (such as a wedding or a funeral), childcare issues, illnes or job issues … the list of legitimate causes for absence are endless.  Then take into account that we have an enemy who would like nothing better than to use confusion, inconvenience, interruption or obstacle to derail the smooth running of your retreat.  We have ample cause to make the creation of a back-up plan a priority in the retreat planning process.

We have already mentioned the importance of having a simple organizational chart.  Designated leaders must make sure that each area under their responsibility is covered with a back-up plan.  Not only that, each leader needs to make sure that someone knows exactly what she does in case she is the one out of commission.  For instance, the person in charge of decorations has a plan of what she wants to do to decorate, and has those working with her who have helped gather the decorations.  However, she must also make sure that the entire decorating design is known by others who could carry on in her absence.  Another obvious example would be in the production of a skit.  Each performer must have an understudy; those working “backstage” must have those who could carry on in their absence.   The same goes for anyone with specific responsibilities at the retreat (manning the hospitality table, the book table, the registration table, etc.).

There is no way to foresee what may come up at a retreat.  But there is a peace in knowing that you are prepared, as much as is within your power, to go on in spite of those difficulties.  And then, as in everything, we trust God to provide where we are lacking.

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Difficult People (Part 1)

Have you ever considered the parable of the tares and the wheat in relation to the difficult people in your life and within your women’s ministry?  The parable found in Matthew 13:24-30 talks about how the enemy sows tares in the wheat field.  Satan plants counterfeit Christians (tares) in the world.  This passage teaches that in the midst of God’s people, there are those that are not genuine Christians. “Tares have the same color, shape and fragrance as wheat, but no heads of grain form.  …Tares soak up the nutrients, they take up space, but they produce nothing in return and are unidentifiable until harvest time.” (Jon Courson)

Most of the time, we don’t really know who is truly a part of God’s kingdom and who is not.  There are those who, from all appearances, seem to be true believers.  They are involved, they carry their Bible and even use Christian “lingo” and join us in prayer.  But they are tares.  Satan has planted them within the kingdom to cause confusion and problems.  But unless we get specific discernment from the Lord, we have no idea whether the difficult people we encounter were “planted” by the enemy to cause problems and division, or whether God put them there to be ministered to by us.

It could be that both are true–the enemy wants to use them, but God wants us to minister to them.  And our godly response to these difficult people should be the same–we are to love people, whether friend or enemy. No matter how difficult the person, it is our job to love (through the power of the Holy Spirit), and God’s job to judge.

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