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Game Room

One of the options we normally make available for our women during free time is a “game room.”  Games can provide a casual and congenial atmosphere that encourages fellowship.  Participation in a game is a particularly easy way for relative strangers to get acquainted in a non-threatening atmosphere.

The game room is open to anyone who wants to participate.  Several game choices are made available–most requiring little skill.  We have used card games and board games, and try to have a variety available that appeal to young and old.  We have also made a large puzzle available for ladies to work on during the weekend, and it always gets completed!

Key to having a successful game room is putting someone in charge who likes to play games, who knows the rules to the games, and someone who is friendly and open, eager to encourage others to join in the fun.

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Free Time Options

As an old adage reminds us  “the mind can’t take in what the seat can’t endure.”  That goes for retreats, too!  Every retreat should include “free time” as a part of the schedule.  It’s essential to give your ladies some down time–time to relax and have fellowship with one another.  Some ladies may just want to nap!

We have found early afternoon to be a good time for “free time” activities.  And there are always those night owls who are revved up and ready to party in the evenings after our last session ends.  While there are endless options, we like to make specific options known that encourage fellowship.

Depending on your retreat location, there may be recreational activities available, such as volleyball, tennis, walking trails or even swimming.  For those who prefer something less active, we try to provide a “game room.”  We will discuss this further in a coming post, but a game room is especially nice for those who are new, because it is open to anyone who is interested and wants to join; games and puzzles tend to encourage casual and friendly fellowship without putting demands on those who may be shy or less social.

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Retreat-in-a-Bag Series (The Beginning)

Three books are currently available in our “Retreat-in-a-Bag” series:  “We are the Fragrance of Christ,” Steadfast and Immovable,” and “Disciplesheep–Putting Off  Your Wolf-Like Tendencies.”   Each represents a theme that we have used for a women’s retreat, and contains reproducible artwork, a quiet time study, and skit(s) related to the theme.  The books provide direction for carrying out the theme through decorations and remembrances, as well as general guidance for putting on a women’s retreat.

But the dream was birthed over five years ago with a desire to make skits that had been written for our women’s retreats available to other churches.  On occasion, we had been asked for copies of the scripts.  So we began a journey to learn the process of putting the scripts into a publishable format.  In the midst of that process, we realized that while the skits on their own would be helpful, possibly more guidance regarding the development of the theme throughout a retreat or event would be even more helpful.  Perhaps other small churches could benefit from resources that we had the ability to make available.  That is how the idea of putting a full retreat theme and resources all in one package developed–and thus the name “Retreat-in-a-Bag.”

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Many Hands

They say “many hands make light work” and that is true in preparing for a retreat.  However, many hands in the administration area make for many opinions, and that is not always expedient!  How does that translate?  Keep your planning and administrative groups small, while your work crews can be large and varied.  Take it from us–that is good advice!

A second piece of advice.  On those last frantic days of preparation, slow down.  It is more important to be accurate than efficient.  Your helpers may want to make suggestions to speed up the process.  At another time, their suggestions might be welcome.  But last minute changes to procedures allow for last minute mistakes.  Stick to the plan, devote the time, and be open to talking about procedural changes AFTER the retreat.

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Girls Just Want to be Pampered!

The planning of a men’s retreat seems so simple when compared to the planning of a women’s retreat.  Plan a schedule, make sure there is plenty of food and a place to bed down, and voila!  Instant men’s retreat!  Of course, more goes into it…but, still, it can’t compare to the planning and preparation for a women’s retreat.  But we wouldn’t have it any other way!

Ladies like all the frills and pampering!  They like the decorations and the little extras–a mint on the pillow, little gifts, decorations–all those things  add to the experience.  For many women, this may be their big splurge of the year–the only time the really get away for a weekend void of family responsibilities.  For many, it also represents a big monetary investment.  So we want to give them the very best retreat, creating “green pastures” and “still waters” for their refreshment.  And it is possible to make the women feel special and pampered while being on a budget.

Some churches have a budget that allows for pampering the women in style.  That is luxury.  As a small church with no budget for women’s ministry, all extras must be included in the price of the retreat.  And because we want to keep the price of the retreat as low as possible, any little extras and pampering must be inexpensive as well.  That’s okay.  Your women will appreciate your efforts to bless them.

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